Happy birthday, Papa z”l

 

The DIVA and the RABBI with PAPA

 

Today was my PAPA’s birthday. I have some very clear memories of birthday celebrations with him and various family members and each of them brings a smile to my face. How could they not? My PAPA was the best.

As you can see from the photo to the left, PAPA was very loving and tolerant of his grandchildren. He basically thought that we were the bees knee’s. He liked to eat delicious food (especially Chinese), travel, and spend time with the family all together. He and MY DAD shared books all the time. He sent the “Dow Theory Letter” to each of his four sons, and he was very philanthropic.

PAPA had the opportunity, often with GRANDMA to see the world. As I recall from the map he had on the wall with all of the places he visited, no continent was untouched. He went to some really off the beaten track places: Tibet, the Galapagos, Antarctica, and so many more. He instilled a love of travel, or at least a tolerance for travel by taking us all on vacations together whenever he could. Thanks to PAPA and GRANDMA my cousins and I have seen some incredible parts of the world.

PAPA lived a very good life. Though he was plagued towards the end of it with health challenges, he knew that he was the most loved father, father-in-law, brother, uncle, and the best PAPA his six grandchildren could ever dream of.

I am a very lucky woman to have so many memories of incredible experiences together. I loved that we always learned from one another and that when we would talk on the phone at least once a week, I would say, ‘I love you.’ He would say, ‘and I love you. Now isn’t that a nice arrangement!’

We both agree it was and it always will be.

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The Bagel Wars

You may not be aware of this, but people have a lot of opinions about bagels. Recently at TS there has been a lot of controversy about bagels.

Every morning that we serve breakfast after minyan (Monday to Friday and not on statutory holidays), there are bagels. The bagels used to come from a particular Toronto establishment that delivered them to us. Then this establishment stopped delivering.

TS sourced the bagels from a caterer. Calling these doughy items bagels is being quite generous in this rabbi’s opinion. What followed can only be described as the bagel wars.

Congregants were phoning complaining. They wanted their bagels back and then wanted them back now.

Do not mess with Jews and their bagels.

In order to determine what bagels were most popular and could best serve the needs of TS members (and this is without going into the whole Montreal v. Toronto bagel dilemma). We’ve sampled Gryfe’s, What-a-Bagel, and starting today, Bagel World.

Where do you get your favorite bagels?

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I am in Toronto. My brain is in New Orleans #ccar11

Yesterday, hundreds of Reform Rabbis converged on New Orleans for the Central Conference of American Rabbis annual convention. To say that I’m jealous because I am not there is an understatement. I’ve also never been to New Orleans and always have wanted to go! This could have been my chance.

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Going to the CCAR is like a breath of fresh air. At least it was for me when I went to San Francisco last year. As with any occasion when a bunch of colleagues get together and study, it is a reminder that the rabbinate is so much more than writing sermons and making hospital visits. There is also the tremendous opportunity to learn. Professional development, study with scholars, and just the sharing of stories to support one another I find breathe new life into my rabbinate.

I am fortunate that I get to attend other professional conferences this year. I am particularly looking forward to the Consultation on Conscience, the biannual meeting of the social justice minded headed by the Religious Action Center. (You can go, too. Here is the information.) This will mark the end of a two-year program I’ve done with the RAC called the Balfour Brickner Rabbinic Seminar.

If you are on twitter, which clearly you should be, you can follow me @rabbisteinman. If you look at the hashtag #ccar11 you will be able to see some of what other rabbis are learning (and several comments by yours truly wishing that I was there).

Don’t worry. I’ve already marked my calendar for Boston next year’s CCAR convention.

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Ooops!

I am pretty sure I broke a blogger rule. I said I was going to post more about Purim and then I never did. Ooops. I hope you can forgive me. Especially because now Purim is over and I’m kind of over it and onto the next thing. I guess I will try to remember for next year.

I have lots of thoughts swirling in my mind. As indicated by last week’s post, there are some transitions happening in my life. So to answer some general questions I have been answering…

1. No I don’t know what my next job is going to be, yet. When I do, I promise I will blog about it, scream it from the rooftops, etc.

2. No I am not staying in Toronto. As you may or may not recall, I am not a Canadian citizen or permanent resident therefore I cannot stay in Canada.

3. Yes I am moving back to the United States of America. That is where I have citizenship.

4. No, I do not know where I am moving yet. I have some preferences.

5. I don’t really have anything for #5 ,it just felt like this list should have five points.

That’s pretty much it from the wilds of @rabbisteinman land (do you follow me on twitter? You should).

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Announcement from Temple Sinai

Temple Sinai members received this e-blast today:

Dear Fellow Congregants,

Rabbi Eleanor Steinman has enjoyed being part of our Temple family for the last three years; however, she would like to strengthen her commitment to social action and social justice by working in the not-for-profit sector. On June 30, 2011, Rabbi Steinman will be ending her service at Temple Sinai to pursue her goals.

Rabbi Steinman’s commitment to social action initiatives has helped us to grow community-based programs like Pri Adamah and has allowed her to work toward social change while strengthening our Jewish community and Jewish values. We are happy to have shared this opportunity with her.

In her own words: “Thank you for the kindness that Temple has shown me. You have welcomed me to a new city, allowed me to learn and grow, and given me a place to call home. I am grateful for the opportunities that Temple has given me, including becoming a Balfour Brickner Rabbinic Fellow.”

I hope that you will join me in wishing Rabbi Steinman well in her future endeavours. In the spring, the congregation will gather to honour Rabbi Steinman for her contributions to our congregation. Please watch your E-Vents for a date and time.

B’shalom,

Lorne Bernstein
President
president AT templesinai.net

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My AUNT L is awesome!

ME and AUNT L

Though it may embarrass her a great deal, you should all know that my AUNT L is amazing!

This was written about her in a local Austin, TX paper. I am removing her name because she wouldn’t want me to publicize it.

School of Human Ecology Faculty Chosen for Faculty Service Award

SOMEONE NOT AUNT L and AUNT L recently received a strange phone call from David Laude. On the surface, the phone call was not entirely suspicious—it was an invitation to Dean Laude’s office presumably to discuss undergraduate education. Invitations to such meetings are commonplace in the work lives of University of Texas at Austin faculty.This invitation, however,  was special. Upon arrival at Dean Laude’s office in the Will C. Hogg building, AUNT L and NOT AUNT L along with two other College of Natural Sciences(CNS) faculty were escorted across the street to Welch Hall where they were guests of honor at a celebratory breakfast. Upon arrival, NOT AUNT L and AUNT L and their  colleagues discovered that they  had been nominated for the Natural Sciences Council  (NSC)  Faculty  Service Award for 2011. At the breakfast,  NOT AUNT L and AUNT L heard the reasons why they had been chosen to receive the award from the students who had nominated them for the accolade.

AUNT L, senior lecturer in the Department of Nutritional Sciences, in just the three years–from fall of 2007 to the spring of 2010–AUNT L has taught nearly 3,000 undergraduate students—an astounding number. AUNT L regularly teaches the large lecture-based course, Fundamentals of Nutrition (NTR 306), an entry-level Nutritional Sciences course serving majors and non-majors alike. Courses like NTR 306 typically enroll in excess of 300 students per semester, and Steinman often teaches two sections of NTR 306 each spring semester. AUNT L also regularly teaches Nutrition through the Life Cycle (NTR 315); so regularly, in fact, that she has, in the past three years, taught 18 sections of these courses.Just as she has dedicated herself to building community in her classrooms, AUNT L is working to build and strengthen community within the university and beyond, bringing her message about better health through better nutrition to the children of Austin. Whether it is writing a grant to establish the Healthy Families Initiative Project, a program that engages students and families through school-based health activities, including the creation of a community cookbook, creation of sustainable student-tended gardens, and development of a nutrition education program at the University of Texas Elementary School or giving of her personal time to young people through University out-reach programs like Explore UT, AUNT L is ensuring that her future students will be happy and healthy when they arrive on campus as freshmen.

NICE STUDENT, nutritional sciences junior and vice president of the NSC, explains her choice to nominate AUNT L,  “I have been able to see that she is respected both by University of Texas students and  by  the community. She has helped impact the lives of children by improving their eating choices and has made a difference in the lives of students she teaches.” NICE STUDENT also points to AUNT L’s work with the Healthy Families Initiative and with the Garden to Table Project both at the University of Texas Elementary School, “By educating children about nutrition, physical activity, and vegetable consumption, she has made a difference in the lives of these students”

Told you. My AUNT L. Totally amazing. And please remember that photo was taken in the 80s.

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Be happy. It’s Adar. Again.

Jewish tradition teaches, משנכנס אדר מרבים בשמחה. When Adar comes, joy is increased. Well Adar is here and it is time to be happy.

This video has the potential to make you happy. And you could learn something.

I will wait a few more days before I tell you what I really think about Purim and the Book of Esther. UNCLE H, please begin to prepare yourself. I don’t want a repeat of last time.

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Happy Pri Adamah opening day!

Hip hip hooray! Today is Pri Adamah day. That’s right. You can now go here and sign up for the 2011 season.

There are some new features to the program this year…

-Choose between 13 or 18 points and come every Tuesday to Temple Sinai and select the fresh, organic produce that is right for you and your family.

-All of the produce comes from local, organic farmers. Whatever The Cutting Veg doesn’t grow on its own soil is outsourced. The majority of the produce will be veggies.

-you can pay online via credit card

-online registration (unless you wish to pay by check or installments, then you should email daniel AT thecuttingveg.com

-If you determine that The Cutting Veg Community Supported Agriculture Program is not right for you, please provide us with two weeks notice, and we will refund you for the remaining weeks.

-If you sign up for the “Spring Thaw” special you will get 22 weeks for the price of 20. Only through March 31.

-CSA Members also receive exclusive offers and discounts from community partners.

The goal of the Pri Adamah CSA’s goal is to have 126 members. Remember if you think you can’t use a whole share you can find a partner to split the share. If you need assistance with this, please contact social_action AT templesinai.net

Like last year, we are relying on members to come and volunteer during the CSA hours (about 1pm-7pm on Tuesdays). This can be a wonderful family activity. There are lots of jobs for little hands, too. If you are interested in doing so, or know someone who is a teenager and needs volunteer hours please contact social_action AT templesinai.net

In preparation for an exciting season, the Social Action committee is hosting a Preserving the Harvest Workshop on Sunday, April 10 from 2-4pm. Our farmer, Daniel Hoffman will teach how to dry, freeze, can and make the produce last throughout the year to enjoy.

I’m already dreaming about garlic scapes and kale chips. How about you?

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Apple could achieve total domination

I believe I have written before about how much I love my Macbook. Purchased in 2008 as an ordination gift to myself, it is the gift that keeps on giving. I use it everyday at the office and a lot at home (though the iPad I got but never wanted has taken over some of the general home use). For awhile now I have been wondering if there is a way for small businesses and non-profits to utilize the services of Apple, which I find to be more reliable, consistent, and innovative. (Can you imagine Apple and the URJ teaming up and creating software for synagogues that is uniform, cloud based, secure, and compatible for all machines?) It seems that Apple is thinking the same thing.

They recently launched JointVenture. I’m not certain that it is exactly the best option for non-profits, especially with the somewhat hefty price tag, however I think there is a shift happening and I find it fascinating. What are your thoughts?

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Read Local. Think Global. March 6.

Once again, the amazing social action committee has put together the Read Local. Think Global. program. This time we are reading Three Cups of Tea by Greg Mortenson and David Oliver Relin. If you have read the book, if you care about women’s education on an international scale, or you think social justice is super important, I hope you will join us. The ad in the temple bulletin states the following:

Join us as we explore the book Three Cups of Tea, by Greg Mortenson and David Oliver Relin. In addition to the adult version, there is an age-appropriate version for young readers and a children’s book edition. Together, young and young at heart, will be able to learn and work together to change the world.

We will eat lunch together, discuss the themes of the book and their connection to Jewish tradition, and work on an advocacy project together. Please RSVP to Marcie at 416.487.3281 or email education AT templesinai.net. Registration is required by Friday, March 4 at noon for the lunch.

Lunch: 12:00p.m.

Program: 12:30p.m.

Cost: $10 for lunch; program is free

Let me know if you have any questions. I hope to see you there (whether or not you’ve read the book).

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