The Jewish Real World

After graduating from Brandeis, I joined AVODAH: The Jewish Service Corps which proved to be one of the best experiences of my life.  I moved into a house on the border of Carroll Gardens and Red Hook at the end of August.  I vividly remember sitting in the cab with my sister.  She was doing what she does best, giving me a pep talk.  We walked into the house and two of my roommates were already there and speaking with the then program director.  We took a quick tour.  My sister was immediately put off by the blessing hanging outside the bathroom door.  I couldn’t imagine what I got myself into and I couldn’t believe my luck as more of my future roommates, there were nine of us in total had opportunity to go grocery shopping for the first time together and begin to set up our community.

Our house had three levels, it really was a building with three railroad style apartments.  There were enough rooms for all of us and because of the railroad nature everyone either had to walk through someone’s room or have someone walk through their room to get to the hallway.  Our first task was to figure out who would get which room.  We assigned each room a letter and then would draw numbers which would decide who got to pick first.  I always thought what would come next would be emblematic of the entire experience.  I was the ninth pick.  I still got my first choice room.

As AVODAHniks we all worked in non-profit agencies throughout New York City serving low-income populations.  In order to understand our clients lifestyle, we lived in voluntary poverty.  Receiving a monthly metro pass from our employers, we needed to determine how to spend our minimal income.  On Monday evenings we met at the AVODAH office and had programs based upon our interests that included Jewish content, social justice and social change issues, and always a dinner.  Wednesday nights were either house meetings, community meetings, mandatory fun nights, or something else I can’t seem to remember after all these years.

At my house we had Shabbat dinner every week.  The work wheel assigned who would be taking care of the meal and together we created the most incredible, festive, song-filled evenings I ever experienced.  We built a Sukkah in the rain, we cleaned the entire house for Pesach, and we laughed a lot.  We also brought one another comfort after September 11th changed our world, and the closeness we felt with one another, though now we hardly ever see or hear from one another, is very special. There are so many hilarious stories, so many fun memories and I am grateful that I got the expeirence.

Now, among the 16 of us there are teachers, social workers, attorneys, non-profit managers, rabbis, partners and children, too.

AVODAH now has programs for recent college graduates in New York, Washington, Chicago, and New Orleans.  As a partnership in the 4th year in 2001 I am now part of a growing alumni network.  If you know someone who is graduating from university and is interested in participating in Jewish life and social justice and perhaps not entirely sure how, I strongly recommend you send them in the direction of AVODAH.  I promise they will always thank you.

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What are you doing on Sunday?

If you’re in Toronto, the answer should be coming to this event. 

On November 18, 2009, an Israeli woman, Nofrat Frenkel, was arrested for wearing a tallit and holding a Torah scroll at the Kotel. On January 5, 2010, Israeli police called another woman, Anat Hoffman, in for questioning because she wore a tallit at the Kotel. If this kind of police action had taken place in any other country, the global Jewish community would have accused the state of anisemitism and violating basic human rights. This happened though in our beloved Israel and we must not stand idly by.

On Sunday, February 14th we have the opportunity to express our desire for religious pluralism in Israel.  The event will include a brief, silent morning service and opportunity for study.  Most importantly it will be an opportunity for all Jews in Toronto–men and women–to join in one space to model the goal of pluralism for Jews.

We hope to see you at the Lipa Green Centre for Jewish Community Services at 10am on Sunday, February 14, 2010.  Bring a tallit and kippa if you wear them.  There will be Temple Sinai siddurim available for our members.  Feel free to bring your own siddur if there is one you prefer.

If you are unable to attend, you can view a letter of solidarity and send an email to publictefillah at gmail.com with the subject heading “support” and your name will be added to the list.

I will definitely be there and hope you will be, too.  If you want to know some of my previous thoughts on this issue, click here or here.

Please be in touch if you have any questions.

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It’s time to pump — you up!

The past two years have been filled with lots of changes.  One of the most significant is that I now work out with a trainer which has propelled me into a major lifestyle change, lots more working out.  I find that working out more often has really affected lots of things in positive ways.  In addition to being in better shape which is sort of obvious, I also find that I am making healthier choices in lots of ways.  A surprising benefit is that I find that when I concentrate on something during the day after working out I am much more capable of focusing.

The real surprise is when I also take the opportunity to pray on a workout day I am able to connect more deeply with the experience itself.  This might seem contradictory to my post of last week, I am not only introducing in sharing my challenges but also the ways I overcome them, or at least attempt to.

Do you workout?  Do you pray?  Do you find a connection between the two?

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Avatar

It took me awhile and finally I saw Avatar.  I saw it in 3-d and it was well worth it (though wearing the 3-d glasses over my glasses was quite uncomfortable).  The plot of the story wasn’t so unique (yes I do think it was just like Fern Gully).  I do think that visually it was incredibly rich.  I could not take my eyes off the screen or take a bathroom break which was somewhat needed though not at an emergency level.

I do not think that the film will win best picture, though it surely shall win for special effects and probably some other awards, too.

What I don’t entirely understand is, how can a movie that is visually so amazing be so lacking in story line.  It was completely predictable.  The relationships were completely obvious.  I don’t want to give anything away in case someone hasn’t seen anything I guess I just expected a little bit more.

I’ve seen a lot of things online that look at the symbolism in the film and explain it and I just don’t think that is entirely necessary.  It is just a movie.  I don’t expect that Avatar 2 will be make an appearance.  How will the special effects that are so captivating make their way into another film?

Also, with such a dig against big corporations and their means of plundering the world, even other worlds, how can James Cameron, who spent millions of dollars justify this movie?  It all seems a little contradictory to me.

Did anyone else find that it was as though James Cameron knew that the iPad was going to be introduced a short time after the release of Avatar?

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Let’s get ready to rumble!

It is here.  The day that most sports fans have waited for, Superbowl Sunday!

Or, if that doesn’t make you excited…

It is here.  The day that most sports fans have waited for, the commercials on Superbowl Sunday!

Since the Vikings are out, I don’t really care that much who wins (though I’ll be rooting for New Orleans).  Who are you rooting for?

Or…

Are they having a Bud Bowl this year?  Who do you think will win and just how many commercials with Clydesdales do you think there will be?

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The world is changing

And here is some serious proof.

Ketchup will never be the same.

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Do you remember?

This week in the Torah we read Parshat Yitro, the story of Revelation.  Just forty-nine days after the crossing of the Sea of Reeds and Redemption, this emerging community is made into a covenantal community.  No longer will the Israelite people be connected by individuals with Divine experience (like Moses).  Now we’re a unified community with rules, laws and consequences.  Every time we read of the Sinai experience we’re reminded that every Jewish soul that ever will exist was present.  Do you remember what it was like?  I hope to spend Shabbat this week trying to do just that.

And because I try to have a sense of humor sometimes, for your viewing pleasure…

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Maureen agrees it is time, too

Even more on DADT.

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Uncle Alan is in the press

Take a look here.  Did you write to Congress yet?  I did yesterday and it was so easy.  Remember, faxes and emails are most effective!  Calls are great, too.  Here is a list of contact information for the Senate.  Here is a way to find your representative in the House and how to contact them.  There’s work to be done.

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Urgent action required for DADT!

This is from HRC.

In just a few hours, Secretary of Defense Robert Gates and Joint Chiefs Chairman Adm. Mike Mullen will be meeting with senators about “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.”

Have military leaders heeded the growing call to end discrimination in the military? Not necessarily. A Pentagon spokesman said, “The Joint Chiefs have been thinking through how they would go about offering their best advice on this issue.”

Don’t you just love Washington double-speak?

We need Congress to know there’s immense public pressure on this issue. As they decide how to respond to today’s hearing – whether to push this repeal forward or push it aside – they need to hear from you immediately.

Tell your representative and senators to repeal this discriminatory law NOW.

In case you missed it, I’m forwarding the email I sent after President Obama’s State of the Union speech, announcing our $2+ million campaign to repeal “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.”

Please join us in this crucial effort.

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