The first night of Chanukah

I am giving myself the challenge of writing a blog post for every night of Chanukah.  Ok, I might get helped out by the ‘publish later’ option.  Nevertheless, here we are!  Chanukah has arrived.  As I was driving to the office today I remembered one of the fun parts about Chanukah is Radio Chanukah on XM or Sirius.  I tuned in and was reminded of the power of Jewish music.  Whether it is Irving Berlin’s White Christmas, George Gershwin’s Rhapsody in Blue, or Debbie Friedman’s I am a Latke, Jewish contributions to music are immense.  What might happen if during the eight days of Chanukah we all made an effort to listen to music written by Jews?  How might these sounds help enrich our Chanukah experience?  Give it a try.  Let me know!  Chag urim sameach and Shabbat Shalom!

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Re-dedication this Chanukah

Police prepare to arrest Nofrat Frenkel for wearing a prayer shawl

It should be no surprise to anyone that I have met, ever, that I don’t like injustice.  I don’t like being told that I can’t do something because of my gender, age, religion, or pretty much anything else.  Recently the news coming out of Israel, Jerusalem specifically is making me furious.  Above is an image from the Women of the Wall on Rosh Chodesh Kislev when a young woman was arrested for wearing a tallit.  Women of the Wall is a group that has been meeting for twenty years at the Kotel, the Western Wall to prayer together every Rosh Chodesh (first of the month).  Throughout the group’s history there has been a lot of strife because the Orthodox people who like to pray at the Kotel don’t like the way these women pray.  They sing aloud, they read Torah, and they define themselves as a minyan (quorum of ten Jews). Throughout the years this women’s group composed of Jews from all streams have been harassed, attacked, and seen court cases brought against them.  One of the latest blows is the prohibition from reading Torah in the Kotel plaza.  In order to avoid arrests, the group moves from the Western Wall to another area and reads the Torah from that location.

Nofrat Frenkel was arrested for, “performing a religious act that offends the feelings of others.”  She was wearing a tallit, a prayer shawl.  She is on the left above. There were other women wearing tallitot.  The Women of the Wall recently received a new Torah which they needed to keep in a duffel bag to be brought out at the appropriate time.  On the mens side, note that there are several hundred Torah scrolls and there are none on the womens side.  Nofrat Frenkel was holding the Torah scroll as they group tried to leave the plaza and was pushed ahead by police while still carrying the Torah and brought to the police station.  I’m summarizing here and hopefully I have most of the details correct.  You can find more on this story online.

As if this wasn’t enough to get my blood boiling the Israel Religious Action Center is now reporting of numerous policies within Israel that are segregating society in favor of the haredi, ultra-orthodox, needs.  For example, there are public buses that are now gender segregated, medical clinics that sees male and female patients on different days, post offices that have separate lines, stores with different entrances, and sidewalks that are divided.  You can find out a lot more about what is going on in Israel from the IRAC and I hope that you will read up on these issues!

In a recent post, Rabbi Denise L. Eger writes about how women are under attack not just in Afghanistan and Israel but in the latest health care bill.  You can read what she wrote, here in case I am not convincing enough.

We are approaching a major season of giving and a time when we can get our last contributions in before the end of the calendar year.  I for one don’t want or need any Chanukah presents.  I would much prefer that people make donations to organizations like IRAC or any other organization that is doing such important work in Israel, Canada or the USA.  Imagine what it could mean that if just for one night of Chanukah, instead of buying presents, all the money that you might have spent was donated to a worthy cause.  This is truly a lesson in giving that we need for the next generation to learn whether or not we have children or not.  As children grow, let them have involvement in deciding where monies should go and make sure that they contribute something, whether a portion of their allowance or some money from their own tzedakah box.

The Madoff scandal and the recession have taught us all some hard lessons about vulnerability, prioritization and excess.  I think this season is the time to start to create new customs and traditions that reflect the values that really are the most important, not the ones that help us to keep up with spending power of those around us.  This is the year to make Chanukah a true symbol of rededication.

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Rabbis know how to have fun

My colleague and friend returns from five months of maternity leave.  I am quite possibly the most excited about this and in honour of her return (yes I spelled honor like a Canadian) I decorated her office.

My lovely colleague has a beautiful new daughter, a daughter she said would never wear pink. I have only ever seen her in pink.

Rabbis know how to have fun.

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Facebook

It should be no shock to anyone that I spend time on facebook for personal and professional reasons.  The best reason to date is that a classmate of mine from elementary school reconnected and he sent me a copy of my 2nd grade class poetry book.  We’re talking the future Byrons, Kerouacs, and Lordes of the our generation people.  Ok, I might be over dramatizing just a bit, after all we were all just eight.  Nevertheless, facebook has brought people back into my life that I had thought long gone.  Essentially my entire family is on facebook and for whatever reason, it is becoming a common way for us to communicate with one another.

Professionally I use facebook to wish my congregants a happy birthday (and with 5,000 of them I guarantee you they are not all my facebook friends… yet).  I also use the group tools to coordinate information sharing with the confirmation (grade 10) students and other sorts of things.  Obviously not everyone in the universe is going to use facebook, nor should they.  There are also times when facebook might give me some information and a phone call or a face-to-face meeting is warranted.  At this point, I do not find facebook to be an overwhelming part of my day.  It is not a task that I see on a to-do list that makes my stomach turn.  For many of my colleagues this isn’t the case.  Whether it be their reluctance toward technology or the amount of things they are already packing into one work day, facebook isn’t a priority for them and I respect their decisions to refrain from this technology.  The question I have is, when one doesn’t jump on the bandwagon with all of the technologies, when does it hurt and when does it benefit?  Responses welcome.

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A new blog, a new oppportunity

As I continue to develop my rabbinate, it seems to me that there are more types of information increasingly available on the internet and that this is also a good forum for me to post things that I write, whether they be articles, divrei Torah or sermons.  Throughout the week I also get many different types of action alerts and I hope to use this blog for that purpose as well.  Please feel to comment and create a further conversation.

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