The gift of reading

I come from a family of readers.  We all read in a different sort of way.  MY DAD is always reading a book, whether on an e-reader or the actual thing.  The people at the library know him by name.  MY MOM read more slowly, she would read a few pages at night and fall asleep.  Sometimes though, when a book was really good, she would sit and read until it was finished.  THE DIVA reads a lot, too.  If she is in the middle of a book she loves, you can cancel your plans because she will not leave her favorite spot on the couch until the book is done.

Generally, I read a lot.  I have always read before falling asleep since I was a kid and read every babysitter’s Club book, skipping the parts that were repeated explaining the club’s founding.   I generally scan the headlines at least everyday.  I also get magazines and read those, though as you know I’m almost always behind on THE NEW YORKER.  Now I have a kindle and the iPad I got but never wanted.  There is never something to read very far away from me.  (This also, of course, bodes well for me being a rabbi since my office is filled with books and I can always learn something new by reading).

For the past three weeks I haven’t been able to read.  Sure, I’ve tried.  I just can’t concentrate very well.  This isn’t a surprise of course.  I think I’m not reading because concentrating is really hard.  Last night I read a little bit of a NEW YORKER from the pile.  Hopefully reading will come back soon.

That got me to think, reading is an important gift, and Chanukah is a time to give the gift of reading, literally.

I thought long and hard of organizations that help give the gift of reading.  I don’t have a particular favorite (if you want one, I can give you the name privately).  Instead I think we should all give ourselves a present.  Go to the local public library (remember those?) and get a library card (remember to bring a piece of mail with you or something that has your address on it)!  It is now possible, even with some e-readers, to download books from the local library so there is literally no reason not to use this amazing system that is always available.

And speaking of books, Google announced today that they have a new ebook library.    The video is highly entertaining.  Since I have the above mentioned devices, I could think of nothing better in the world (especially the possibility of supporting independent booksellers).  Very sadly for me, google ebooks aren’t available in Canada.  This makes me so sad.  I guess I will just have to stock up when I’m in the USA.

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But what will I do with the mute button now?

It seems that there is some sense of order in operation in the world. How, you might ask? Well, if you have ever watched TV at the RABBISTEINMAN house, you know that the mute button is pretty much always used whenever a commercial comes on (this of course preceding the use of DV-R, or PV-R as it is known in Canada). MY MOM was particularly sensitive to the louder noise made by the commercials and often initiated the request to turn down the television.

Well Mom, Congress is on our side! I learned today in The Daily Beast,

Congress Quiets TV Ads
Gone will be the days of the mute button during commercial breaks. After decades of debate and noise, Congress passed the Commercial Advertisement Loudness Mitigation or CALM Act on Thursday. The legislation will bring commercials down to the same decibel level as regular programs within the next year.
Read it at Los Angeles Times
Posted at 7:54 AM, Dec 4, 2010

Thank you CALM. You are a welcome addition to the RABBISTEINMAN household.

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Thanks for the grub

Food security is a major issue in our cities, counties, states/provinces, and countries.  On this fifth night of Chanukah, consider donating to your local food pantry.  Dollars can go a lot further in these institutions because they can purchase food an a much reduced rate, however it is just as important to get into the habit of dropping off non-perishable items (and sometimes toiletries).

In the T-dot, you can go here.

In the USA, check here to find a food bank near you.

 

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The hills are burning

Written before Shabbat (I don’t know if the news will change)

A terrible tragedy has befallen the Land of Israel.  A fire of unclear origins is ravaging the north of the country.  People have died, homes are ruined, and many are displaced.  There are many organizations that are responding to this tragedy, ARZA is the place I choose to give money in a crisis like this.  Fortunately, they are aware that Reform Jews live in North America in two countries and have prepared their donation site to accept funds in US or Canadian dollars.  Go here for the link.

Chanukah is a reminder of the strength of community.  (Or it’s this, I got your back Uncle H).  Wherever there is a crisis of this proportion it is incumbent upon each person to help.  Chanukah or not.

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Equal rights for the 3rd night

Are you familiar with the great work of Human Rights Campaign? Well, you should be. On their website, HRC describes themselves as

The Human Rights Campaign represents a grassroots force of over 750,000 members and supporters nationwide. As the largest national lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender civil rights organization, HRC envisions an America where LGBT people are ensured of their basic equal rights, and can be open, honest and safe at home, at work and in the community.

HRC is part of an effort to repeal Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell or DADT. I have posted about this a lot here and here.

On this third night of Chanukah, let’s keep the flame burning for equal rights for all through support of HRC.

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2 places no parent wants to go

A few years ago I did a Clinical Pastoral Education unit at Childrens Hospital Los Angeles.  Recently, they opened their new building, well they were scheduled to do it and I don’t know if they actually did, I haven’t driven by in a while.  Trust me when I say they do amazing work there and it is a worthwhile organization to support.

Similarly, in Toronto the Hospital for Sick Children, better known as Sick Kids (and no I didn’t come up with that name) does incredible things for children and is an entirely worthy organisation (did you catch how I spelled like a Canadian) to support.

Happy Chanukah.

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Put on your yarmulke…

it’s time for Chanukah!  Hooray!

Awhile ago I decided that for each night of Chanukah I would highlight an organization that does awesome work.  Some will be Jewish.  Some will be secular.  Some might be American, others Canadian.  Why, you ask?  Because for me, Chanukah isn’t about getting gifts, it is about giving them.  Even more, Chanukah is about acknowledging the dedicated work that people do to improve our world.

Translation: you should not buy me a Chanukah gift.  Instead you should give that money to one of these awesome organizations.

My meal group on an AJWS rabbinic mission to El Salvador

Do you know about the amazing American Jewish World Service?  Well you should.  You can go to their website for loads more information.  In short though, AJWS does the awesome work around the world to combat global poverty in the name of the Jewish community not through bandaids but by sustaining local grassroots organizations that are doing the right kinds of work.  Even Nick Kristof likes them.

Happy Chanukah from me to you.

And super happy birthday to Dr. America!

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Let’s talk about it

Today marks World AIDS day.  This moment is to remember those whose lives have been list, to educate and re-educate ourselves and our children, and our community.  Let us remember the individuals both named and unnamed who have lost their lives to the ravages of HIV disease by talking about HIV and AIDS with dignity.  Let’s all teach people (especially youth) to use condoms when having any type of sex.  Remember that HIV is not transmitted through hugs. Don’t forget that there is nothing scary about being tested and asking one’s partners to be tested before engaging in sexual activity.

May the memory of the righteous ones who lost their lives to HIV disease and AIDS forever be a blessing.

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The iPad I got but never wanted

MY MOM and MY DAD had matching iPads. They got them in June before MY MOM retired and used them for lots of things. Like Oprah, MY MOM loved the scrabble app. (I do too and will gladly play at any time).

As you, loyal reader might recall, the iPad was on the list of things wanted but certainly didn’t need.

Yet, now I find myself typing this post on MY MOM’s iPad which is now my iPad. I never thought it would happen that I would inherit an ipad under these circumstances. I know MY MOM would want me to have it. THE DIVA completely agrees. Thereby I have the most bittersweet iPad known to humankind.

I would prefer not to have an iPad and have MY MOM instead. That’s the real truth.

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The nightmare that just won’t end

Thank you to everyone in the blogosphere and in the real-lifeosphere who have been so incredibly supportive of my family and I through this journey.  I have a feeling that my blog posts going forward will have lots to do with MY MOM and the grieving process.

There is a lot to write.  For the moment though, all I can manage is to describe sitting in this nightmare from which I cannot awaken.  It started when I landed in Los Angeles to the news of my mother’s death and though I have slept and taken some naps, I just cannot get out of it.  Fortunately, MY DAD and THE DIVA and I are in this together and we have been surrounded by loving family and friends.  If there is anything that makes these past few days tolerable it is the amount of love coming our way.  Thanks for sending it.  I’m sending it right back at you.

Until then, happy (AMERICAN) Thanksgiving. Remember to tell the people you love just how you feel about them.  Now.  Don’t wait.

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