Read locally. Think globally. Wednesday, December 8.

Dinner: 7.00 p.m. • Program: 7.30 p.m.

Social Action
Read Locally. Think Globally.

Join our lively discussions on important issues that will enable us to explore the world in which we live.

Our first book, The Bottom Billion: Why the Poorest Countries are Failing and What Can Be Done About It by Professor Paul Collier, explores the reason why impoverished countries fail to progress despite international aid and support.

Join us for a light dinner followed by a thought-provoking discussion led by Rabbi Eleanor Steinman. Please RSVP to Marcie at 416.487.3281 or e-mail education@templesinai.net.

Registration is required.
Cost: $10 for dinner.

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Duh! We’re moving from peoplehood to purpose

I spotted the following article online.

Communal ties lacking for young Jewish professionals, study shows

November 10, 2010

NEW ORLEANS, La. (JTA) — A new survey shows that younger Jewish professionals are less committed to the Jewish collective than their elders.

The results of the survey of about 2,500 self-identified Jewish community professionals were released this week in New Orleans at the General Assembly of the Jewish Federations of North America.

Most Jewish communal professionals grew up with two Jewish parents, had strong Jewish educational backgrounds and spent time in Israel, noted sociologist Steven M. Cohen, who did the pro bono research for the project. He called those factors “strong predictors” of later Jewish engagement.

Women make up two-thirds of all Jewish communal professionals, their median age is 48, and they are paid on average $20,000 less per year than men in comparable positions, according to the survey commissioned by the Jewish Communal Service Association of America.

Among those under 34, the survey showed 28 percent had been on Birthright programs, a higher percentage than one would expect among young Jews in general, Cohen said. That indicates a correlation between participation in Birthright and choosing a career in the Jewish community.

But despite that Israel experience and their strong Jewish backgrounds, these young professionals, like their peers not in communal work, have lower levels of commitment than their older colleagues to what he calls the “Jewish collective,” including Jewish peoplehood, Israel and a sense of Jewish “community.”

The take-away from that, Cohen said, is that the Jewish community cannot count on this generation’s continued engagement on the basis of group loyalty. Their Jewish involvement has to be earned, and Jewish professionals who understand that — their peers — will serve them better than older leaders.

“We’re going through a transition from peoplehood to purpose,” he posited. “Younger Jewish professionals are part of the purpose-driven generation.”

The survey was conducted in the fall of 2009 by the Berman Jewish Policy Archive at New York University’s Robert F. Wagner Graduate School of Public Service.

Yes I know the title of this blog is not necessarily the most sophisticated reaction, however, I do not think that the trends in this study should be a surprise to anyone.  Someone, we will call her me, wrote a sermon about the narrative challenge facing the Jewish community and I think this studies findings are demonstrative of my point which was/is, the Jewish community must re-embrace our collective narrative, the Exodus narrative, because it is that story which outlines our purpose.  Organizations and individuals who are stuck on remembering the more recent past are not serving anyone.

Fear does not mobilize the community, as effective as it might be in fundraising.  The Jewish people have a unique purpose in this world thanks to our textual tradition.  We are told to remember that we were slaves in Egypt in order to serve the Jewish and global community through acts of tzedakah raising, which I would translate here as justice.  Jews are repeatedly called to ensure that there is a sense of justice in the world because of our collective memory of enslavement and redemption.

It worries me that this is so surprising and that this study of Jewish communal professionals is ringing some type of alarm. (Let’s ring the alarm at the pay disparity and the uneven gender divide instead!)

What do you think?  Are you surprised by this article?

 

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Do you like me?

I don’t actually care what the answer is.  I’m just hoping that you will go to my new facebook page, Rabbi Eleanor Steinman.  You just have to ‘like’ me and I will be the happiest person and it will help me streamline my facebook page.

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I still miss you every day

Dear Grandma,

Grandma, THE DIVA and I circle 1984(?)
Grandma, THE DIVA and me circa 1985(?)
Today marks ten years on the Hebrew calendar since you died.  Even writing the words brings tears to my eyes.  So much has happened for all of us, our family, and we’ve all grown up in ways you couldn’t even begin to imagine.  I miss you every single day.  I have a picture of you, Papa, Mar-Mar and I from my high school graduation on my desk and I see it, sometimes just for a split second, and it makes me smile.  I miss you a lot.  I miss the touch of your skin, so soft and cool.  I miss your smile. I feel so grateful that I have so many wonderful memories that I can call upon when I do miss you.
I know that death is a part of life.  Believe me, I know that.  That doesn’t make it any easier that you live in my memories.  At the same time I feel so blessed.  You were a part of my life for 20+ years and taught me that no matter what choices I made, whatever I would end up doing for a career I was loved.  Purely.  Unconditionally.
Last night I lit a yahertzeit candle for you.  I know it isn’t traditional for a grandchild, but I’m not exactly the most tradition of grandchildren.  I know that my parents observe the English date of your death.  I don’t know about everyone else.  For me, Rosh Chodesh Kislev is always easier to remember.  And don’t worry, I choose to mark your birthday, December 18, in a very special way.  No matter what.  I have a scoop of Pralines and Cream ice cream from Baskin Robbins in your honor (and only because they don’t make Ralph’s kona coffee anymore).
Grandma, I’m not really sure what happens after a person dies.  I don’t particularly need to know either.  One thing that brings me comfort, though, is knowing that you and Papa are somehow together again.  That’s at least how it works in my mind.  I know that after you died Papa missed you every single day. The two of you are a matched set.  Grandma and Papa.  Grandma and Papa.  You just went so well together.
You would also be really happy to know that all of your children and grandchildren still get along.  Heck, we even like each other almost all the time.  We travel to be together for important occasions.  Thanks to technology that you could not even begin to imagine we even get to see pictures of one another and know about lots of interesting things.
I still treasure that it got to be me that made you a grandmother.
I love you forever,
EBS
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Ani zocheret – I remember

Today marked the English anniversary of the assassination of Yitzhak Rabin.  President Clinton wrote this incredible op-ed.  I blogged about it previously here.

Finish Rabin’s Work

By BILL CLINTON

TODAY marks 15 years since an assassin’s bullet killed my friend, Yitzhak Rabin, the Israeli prime minister. Since his death, not a week has gone by that I have not missed him. I loved him and his wife, Leah, very much. On the occasion of the anniversary of his death, his yahrzeit, the world would do well to remember the lessons of his life: his vision for freedom, tolerance, cooperation, security and peace is as vital now as it was 15 years ago, when he happily spoke and sang for peace at a huge rally in Tel Aviv just before he was killed.

Rabin was utterly without pretense. When David Ben-Gurion sent him as a young man to represent Israel during armistice talks in 1949, he had never before worn a neck tie, so a friend tied it, and showed him how to loosen it so he could preserve the knot for future use. True to form, two weeks before his assassination, he arrived in Washington at a black-tie event without the black tie. We borrowed one for him, and I still smile whenever I think about straightening it for him, just as Hillary does when she remembers how he complained when she made him go out on the Truman Balcony to smoke.

The story of Yitzhak Rabin and the story of Israel are intertwined. He took up arms to defend Israel’s freedom, and laid down his life to secure Israel’s future. When he came to the White House in 1993 to sign the Declaration of Principles with the Palestinians, he was a military hero, uniquely prepared to lead his people into a new era. Before shaking the hand of Yasir Arafat, a man he had long considered his mortal foe, he spoke directly to the Palestinian people:

“Enough of blood and tears. Enough. We have no desire for revenge. We harbor no hatred toward you. We, like you, are people — people who want to build a home, to plant a tree, to love, to live side by side with you in dignity, in empathy, as human beings, as free men. We are today giving peace a chance, and saying again to you, enough. Let us pray that a day will come when we all will say, ‘Farewell to the arms.’”

A decade and a half since his death, I continue to believe that, had he lived, within three years we would have had a comprehensive agreement between the Israelis and Palestinians. To be sure, the enemies of peace would have tried to undermine it, but with Rabin’s leadership, I am confident a new era of enduring partnership and economic prosperity would have emerged.

In many ways Rabin was ahead of his time. The end of his life overlapped with the emergence of the most interdependent age in human history, the explosion of the Internet and the era of globalization. The ties that bind the Israelis and the Palestinians — in his words, two peoples “destined to live together on the same soil” — are a powerful example of the connections that tie us all together across the globe. We are linked in so many ways that we cannot get away from each other.

Therefore, each in our own way, we must all take up the cause for which Yitzhak Rabin gave his life: building a shared future in which our common humanity is more important than our interesting differences. We can all do something, in our communities or around the world, to build the positive and reduce the negative forces of interdependence.

Rabin was a hard-headed idealist. His great gift was to keep the public’s trust while taking measured risks for peace. This approach was best reflected in his own guiding principle: he would work for peace as if there were no terrorism, and fight terrorism as if there were no peace process.

If he could speak to us today, he would ask us to remember him not by mourning what might have been, but by looking clearly at the opportunities and obstacles to peace and getting on with the work at hand.

There is a real chance to finish the work he started. The parties are talking. Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu has the necessary support from his people to reach an agreement. Many Israelis say they trust him to make a peace that will protect and enhance their security. Because of the terms accepted in late 2000 by Prime Minister Ehud Barak, supported in greater detail by Prime Minister Ehud Olmert, and approved by President Mahmoud Abbas and other Palestinians, everyone knows what a final agreement would look like.

The remaining issues can be resolved, and the incentives to do so are there. Israel has its best partner ever in the Palestinian government on the West Bank led by President Abbas and Prime Minister Salam Fayyad, with its proven ability to provide security and economic development. The peace alliance put together by King Abdullah of Saudi Arabia offers Israel full political recognition and the prospect of security and economic cooperation with a host of Arab and other Muslim nations in exchange for an agreement. And many Arab states are engaged in their own economic and social modernization efforts, which prove they are ready to let go of past differences and eager to reap the possibilities of cooperation with Israel.

Meanwhile, the United States government remains committed to maximizing the benefits and minimizing the risks of peace, a conviction shared and manifested by President Obama; Secretary of State Clinton; George Mitchell, the administration’s special envoy; and their colleagues.

On that shining, hopeful day in 1993, Yitzhak Rabin stood on the White House lawn and spoke like a prophet of old when he said, “We are today giving peace a chance, and saying again to you, enough.”

Let us pray on this anniversary that his service and sacrifice will be redeemed in the Holy Land and that all of us, wherever we live, whatever our capacity, will do our part to build a world where cooperation triumphs over conflict. Rabin’s spirit continues to light the path, but we must all decide to take it.

Bill Clinton, the founder of the William J. Clinton Foundation, was the 42nd president.

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I’ve converted

To google.  That’s right.  I’m completely a google person now.  Of course I still have other programs constantly running on my laptop but now I am using google calendar, chrome, and I am even getting my work email in my gmail box (under a different label so I can sort them and decide what I want to see when I want to see it).  If you have any tips let me know.

No, I don’t have an Android phone.

I hope that being in the cloud will enable me to keep things organized and save time.

On another note, I am in the process of streamlining my facebook.  Please ‘like’ my public profile, “Rabbi Eleanor Steinman.”

Later.

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What are you doing for lunch?

Join me on the web!  Bring your lunch, a computer (with wifi or internet), a phone line and we’ll do a little learning together through a webinar.  I will be teaching today, November 3, November 10, and November 17.  You do not have to attend all of the sessions, you can pop in as you are available!  If you need the log-on information for the 10th or 17th, let me know and I will get those to you.  Here is today’s information.

This program is brought to you by Temple Sinai Congregation of Toronto.

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Americans, don’t forget to vote!

And if you use foursquare or thought about it, check this out!

Foursquare Checkins On Election Day

2010 October 27

by Lisa

FourSquare LogoYou know the dandy little sticker you get after voting, “I VOTED!”? Foursquare, the popular mobile-based geo-location game has collaborated with Rock the Vote, Pew Center, Google and the Voting Information Project to create the digital version for the upcoming election.  “Every day we see new examples of Foursquare encouraging and reinforcing positive behaviors,” said Foursquare’s Eric Friedman in a statement. “We’re excited to harness the power of Foursquare to drive civic engagement through the ‘I Voted’ badge.”  Foursquare currently has over 4 million users.  You can download the app to your phone, and/or sign up online.

To pull it off, they’ve collected data on 107,000 polling places. When users check in at these locations and include the hashtag #ivoted, they’ll get the “I Voted” badge in Foursquare, and be added to real time maps and data collected from around the country.

The Foursqaure project builds on the 2008 Twitter #VoteReport, a project that allowed users to share information during the presidential election about their polling places (what was going well, and not so well) in order to make sure everyone was able to vote in a timely and accurate way. Data from the Foursquare project will be used to plan additional initiatives to increase voter turnout and ensure smooth voting experiences for the 2012 presidential election. You can follow the project on election day here.

Allison Fine, one of the co-creators of Twitter #VoteReport, and co-author with Beth Kanter of the excellent book The Networked Nonprofit, will be presenting a webinar with Darim on November 3, from 1-2pm in celebration of our 10th anniversary. All are welcome to this free webinar (though space is limited). Register here!

I’ll be checking in on election day.  Will you?

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When did Halloween become a week long celebration?

I’m confused.  I remember Halloween taking place on October 31, as a kid I remember trick-or-treating, the Halloween parade at school, and carving pumpkins and roasting pumpkin seeds.  I have zero recollection of Halloween greeting cards, wearing costumes for a week, and it being in any way acceptable to stop regularly scheduled activities (like Sunday School!) for Halloween.

Don’t get me wrong, the kids walking around in costumes and stuff is very cute.  I even understand a Halloween party the night before (it is so Jewish to start holidays the evening before) especially on a Sunday.

It has gone too far.  Looking around the Sunday School today it seems that numbers might be slightly down (this is unofficial).  Of the 13 grade 10 students I prepared to teach, only three showed up.

The commercialization of every celebration, no matter how big or small is horrifying to me.  Are we really modeling something to the next generation or are we preparing them to rebel against us?

My favorite Halloween tradition is the one that I learned about in Spanish class every year, Dia de los Muertos (I know there should be some accents in there).  This is actually the origin of Halloween to some extent and has deep important meaning for the families that go to the cemeteries and remember the deceased in preparation for tomorrow, All Saints Day.  These celebrations are not part of my faith or cultural tradition but I think they are very interesting to learn about.

So, Happy Halloween, I guess.  Please let it be over when it is over.  Oh, and happy November!

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I love my Dad!

Happy birthday to the best father I’ve ever had (yes he’s the only one, too).  In honor of your birthday, I’m going to write a list of 29 reasons I love you!  (Why anyone in my family couldn’t be born at the beginning of a month is beyond me!)

1.  You like to spontaneously call in the middle of the day just to say ‘hi’.

2.  You are a devoted father and ensured that THE DIVA and I were independent women and knew how to do things like fix toilets and check the oil.

3.  You are really good and researching purchases (specifically electronics) and ensuring that you get the device you really want.  I make no comment about using said devices.

4.  When I was little (we’re talking really little) you used to take me on dates and not get mad when I would eat only the cucumber out of a cucumber roll.

5.  You think you’re really funny.  Sometimes you are.

6.  You’ve become a professional volunteer in your retirement, a reminder to everyone that perhaps the real reason to work is to be able to retired and give back to community.

7.  We are both left-handed ensuring equality at our family dinner table.

8.  You are always concerned there will be something on the menu for me to eat.

9.  You are immensely talented and creative.  Your latest foray into the world of ceramics is a testament to this!

10.  No one can worry as effectively as you.

11.  You LOVE to read and always know a good book.

12.  Though I did not attend a university with a football team, you ensured that I know who to root for at all times.  Fight on USC!

13.  Once, THE DIVA and I found your secret stash of candy and we hid it from you.  You didn’t get ‘mad’ and you never got even 🙂

14.  No one can pretend to detract squirrels from a bird feeder as effectively as you.

15.  There is not a coat that exists in the world that you don’t want to own (yes this man has more coats than anyone I have ever met).

16.  You are really good with children and they flock to be around you.

17.  We used to make the best chocolate chip cookies together (this was long ago) and you made sure that THE DIVA and I got equal parts of the batter.

18.  You have exceptional taste.

19.  You are an excellent nurse.  I know it from when I had my ACL replacement.

20.  You are the king of schmoozing.

21.  You are really good at driving the speed limit.

22.  True story: “I went to see _____ movie.  I couldn’t figure out why it was so dark.  When the movie was over.  I realized I still had my sunglasses on.”  Hilarious!

23.  You are really good at trivial pursuit.  Really any game that requires lots of knowledge about random things.   You passed this skill on to me.

24.  You lived in Japan for a year.  This is cool because it meant we were eating sushi before it was trendy, and you can spy on Japanese people and tell us what they’re saying.

25.  You really like getting your back scratched and shoulders rubbed.

26.  In 1984 you took me to the Olympics in Los Angeles to see women’s team finals.  You got to see lots of other cool things, too.

27.  You’re fun to go on a road trip with, especially when you spring for massages.

28.  You wrote me my very own lullaby.

29.  Since later today it will also be Shabbat, I am comfortable telling the world that you created the phrase “Shabbat Salami.”

So Shabbat Salami, Dad!  I love you!

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