Jerusalem review

It is hard to believe that my time in Israel is coming to an end. It has been an amazing few weeks. (Video, pictures, links and formatting to be improved when I get home).

The highlights (in no particular order)

1. Just being in Israel just a year after my last trip. In the past there were several years between trips so being able to be here for several weeks in July for two consecutive years has been amazing.

A goat!

2. On the Hartman tiyul (field trip) we went to this amazing moshav. There they grow vegetables and have goats and chickens and make their own cheese using the goat milk. The meal was amazing, and the cheese was off the charts good. This experience defined eating local! For more info (this would be a great stop with a tour group for lunch or dinner) you can visit here.

3. One Saturday night (after Shabbat) I was invited to visit Bar Noar, a program run by the Agudah for LGBTQ teens. Some of the teens shared their stories. How they cannot come out to their families because of religious issues, the stigma that exists in Israeli society about coming out, and how much the program means to them, their self esteem, and their future. One young woman shared a song she wrote and then a group of us started singing Adele together. We didn’t stay too long, after all it is the teens’ program, but words can’t describe how much the short visit meant and the impact it has.

4. I actually had 3 ‘real’ Shabbtot. Time to rest, be with friends, pray, and laugh.

5. The Israel Museum has an amazing exhibit about Hassidic culture. If you are going to be in Jerusalem, I recommend it.

Shakshuka, the yummiest food

6. Shakshuka, the freshest produce that tastes amazing , amazing hummus, pita, salatim, and… I could go on but I won’t.

Yummy cafe hafuch!

7. Time spent reconnecting with old friends and making new ones in various coffee shops and restaurants around Jerusalem and Tel Aviv.

8. Studying at the Shalom Hartman Institute with over 150 rabbis of every denomination. It felt so good after a year focused on education and pedagogy to get to study texts and not think about the other issues.

9. Spending some time with real-life hero, Rabbi Miri Gold. When the video is up, there will be a clip of her explaining what’s happening and happened with her supreme court case.

MK Einat Wilf

10. Visiting the Knesset and hearing from MK Einat Wilf.

Paratrooper training exercises

11. Tiyul to a military base where paratroopers are trained and parachutes are packed and cared for. I now know so much about parachutes and paratroopers.

Surprises/discoveries

1. Since when does everyone jaywalk in Jerusalem? Years ago it was like a game of chicken walking in a crosswalk. Now everyone crosses the streets in the middle of traffic no matter where or when! Super annoying, especially when driving.

2. Jerusalem is becoming increasingly religious and not in a good way. Areas that once seemed populated by hilonim (non traditionally observant Jews) seem few and far between. I heard more stories of Jerusalemites moving out of the city because of neighborhood issues.

3. Cinnamon ruggelah from Marzipan are even better than chocolate.

4. My Hebrew skills are better than I think.

5. I still have some PTSD from my year in Israel, 2003-2004. Whenever a bus goes by I feel an adrenaline surge. When I drive by memorials where terror attacks happened that year my heart skips a beat. I still can’t imagine getting on a bus. This doesn’t prevent me from doing anything really but it is more expensive.

6. I know of numerous people in Israel this summer (as heard that the tourism industry is doing great) shopkeepers are stating that business is down, and people might be here but they aren’t shopping. I didn’t run into one group on Ben Yehuda Street, the Mamilla shopping area, Emek Refayim or services at HUC. This seems strange and I am not sure what it means, if anything.

 

 

 

 

 

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Go Kings Go!

If you have been living under a rock you might not know that the Los Angeles Kings won the Stanley Cup on Monday night. It was a very exciting time.

I would not describe myself as a rabid hockey fan. The rink where I took figure skating lessons when I was in elementary school in Los Angeles was also the Kings’ practice rink.  I enjoyed going to games when I was in high school, especially the state finals (Go Zephyrs!).

When I moved to Canada I knew it would be important to be versed in hockey. I was fortunate that I attended those games in high school and watched the occasional NCAA game (the University of Minnesota usually has a competitive team). It did not take long before I was asked who I preferred, the Toronto Maple Leafs or the Montreal Canadiens. I was (somehow) able to stay neutral in this. Nevertheless, I realized I needed to be versed in hockey. I regularly checked the scores and the rankings so I might have a clue what was happening.

I offered words of care and concern to those die-hard Leafs fans who have not won a championship since 1967. Though they are not what I might call a successful team, the Leafs have one of the most loyal base of fans in professional sports. Most of their fans will never get an opportunity to see a live game. Tickets are that hard to come by. I am truly a lucky person because I got to go to a Leafs game. It was lots of fun (though they lost). It will remain one of the many highlights of my time in Canada.

That being said I do not know if it is a coincidence, sign or portent that the Kings, a team that never won the Stanley Cup, win the year I move back to Los Angeles. I went to two Kings games this season and watched as many games as I could of the road to the final. I sat on the edge of my seat and cheered voraciously as the Kings skated victoriously.

No one can know what next season will bring. For now, Go Kings Go!

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What’s in a title?

I’ve been ruminating. Dangerous. One of my least favorite moments of rabbinic life (and honestly, there aren’t that many), is when someone called me “Rabbi Ellie”. You see, I completed nine years of schooling to receive my rabbinic ordination and the sound of “Rabbi Ellie” sounds like nails on a chalkboard in my head. There is this uncomfortable trend I’ve both observed and heard about from many that male rabbis are referred to as “Rabbi LastName” while female rabbis are called “Rabbi FirstName” by default.

It is for this reason that when I started at my first synagogue post I was adamant that I was to be called Rabbi Steinman. The exception is for students under the age of Bar/Bat Mitzvah and remains that narrow. My congregants were more than happy to oblige. Not all of my colleagues felt the same way. Another rabbi and I were both recipients of an email that said, “Dear Rabbi FirstName and Rabbi Steinman.” Confusing.

I vividly recall a conversation with one of my uncles who puzzled at my problem with “Rabbi FirstName”. I stopped him in his tracks when I asked how he might respond if he was introduced as Dr. Louie (not his real name) instead of Dr. Steinman. I watched as the proverbial lightbulb lit up above his head. No further discussion. He got it.

What will I do when I again work in an environment when the custom is to refer to all of the clergy as Rabbi or Cantor FirstName? I do not yet know. I look forward to having that problem.

This whole issue begs the question that I would love some comments on, is this a gender issue or a societal change from formal to more informal? Do parents introduce their adult friends to their children as Mr. or Ms so-and-so? Does everyone go by first names? Thoughts?

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Did you vote?

Today is an election day in the USA. I have to say, after the Canadian adventure, it felt so good to go to a polling place and cast my ballot. Voting by mail just isn’t the same (and yes I did that in Canada). If there was an election today in your state, I hope you took part!

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Currently…

Reading: I’ve become a baseball fan. According to THE DIVA I have multiple baseball allegiances disorder because I like more than one team (Go Angels! Go Red Sox!) Now I’m even reading books about baseball. Three Nights in August by Buzz Bissinger (author of Friday Night Lights) details Tony LaRussa’s strategy for a three-game series between the St. Louis Cardinals and the Chicago Cubs. I’m learning so much. I also keep a log of the books that I read on this page of my blog.

Watching: I can’t believe that Game of Thrones is done for the season. I just started watching (no I have no idea how I understood what was going on until about two episodes ago) and now it is done for the season. I’m considering picking up the books at some point, too. Of course there’s also Mad Men, The Big C, and Nurse Jackie. Sunday night is a big dv-r night.

Listening to: I am not so much listening to anything new, I generally find myself listening to NPR whenever I am in the car. The embarassing fascinating part is that at least five times per week I find I start a sentence, “I heard on NPR…” Oh I also have the new Madonna album, MDNA. It is all in preparation for her concert in October.

Eating: I made this turkey meatloaf last week. I’m not a huge meatloaf lover but this was delicious.

Working on: Well really ruminating on the fact that I’ve run into people in numerous settings who when asked, “how are you?” Say something to the effect of, “It has been a tough _______ (fill in the appropriate time frame).” It seems that so many people are struggling personally, financially, physically, spiritually, and yet no one is talking about it. Why do we, as a society, struggle so much with being honest about what is really going on in our lives?

Thanks to LBN for giving me the formatting idea of this post.

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The bells of justice ring in Israel!

Tuesday I woke up to news that my colleague Rabbi Miri Gold and the Israel Religious Action Center won the court case that would require the State of Israel to pay Rabbi Gold’s salary. This is news because it is the first time that the State is required to acknowledge a Reform or Conservative rabbi by paying their salary (many Orthodox rabbis’ salaries are paid by the State). Rabbi Gold wrote a beautiful blog post that I’m re-posting below.

By Rabbi Miri Gold

People are asking me how I feel after the landmark decision to have the Ministry of Culture and Sport pay salaries to non-Orthodox rabbis who serve communities in Israel.  I’ll always remember this momentous date, because it is my youngest son’s 23rd birthday today. I’ll also remember it as the day that my daughter posted proudly on Facebook that her mom, Rabbi Marilyn Miri Gold, won her court case.  This is a measure of victory, because when she was in the army, over ten years ago, she never told the other soldiers that her mother is a rabbi.  It was too hard to explain to Israeli kids that there are women rabbis in Israel, too difficult to define Reform Judaism.  Today, “Hareformim” is no longer a disdainful word to the growing numbers of Israeli Jews who have been exposed favorably to Reform communities in Israel and abroad. Rather, it describes a group of socially active Jews who believe that there is more than one way to practice Judaism, that Judaism is to be celebrated, that Judaism is meaningful in their modern lives, and that Reform communities are inviting and welcoming and enriching.

It’s been a long six and a half years since our case first went to the Israel Supreme Court.  I remember the front page of The Detroit Jewish News, showing the scales of justice, with me on one side and numerous ultra-Orthodox rabbis gesturing angrily at me on the other side. I imagine that they are really angry today, but I’ve learned to concentrate on the positive news and the tremendous love and support from friends, family, colleagues, and the thousands of people who have been rooting for the cause all these years. All of them, all of you, deserve a thank you and a round of applause.

I can’t say that I feel unmitigated joy.  Israel is still not the bastion of religious freedom nor the stalwart promoter of religious pluralism.  We still have many hurdles ahead, but I believe that we’ll all have renewed energy and determination to push forward, so that our Reform rabbis will also serve as neighborhood rabbis, and that we’ll be able to legally perform marriages.  I look forward to a time when there are mikvaot for our converts, and funding for buildings for all of our congregations.

Israel does not have separation of church and state, and while this is a cardinal principle in the United States, it is unlikely that Israel will adopt this in the foreseeable future. Since all Israelis pay a “religious” tax, it is fitting that a proportionate amount help to strengthen our Reform Movement in Israel, which is already in a tremendous growth spurt.  Just this year, four new congregations were established in Israel! This landmark decision will not lighten the financial situation of my congregation, but eventually (when all the details are worked out and any hurdles overcome) it will free up funds for the Reform Movement in Israel to make its mark on Israeli society.

I never once imagined that I personally would reap the benefits of this case.  I always hoped to be the “Alice Miller” who would move things forward.  Alice Miller was a commercial pilot before she went into the Israeli army.  She applied to be an Air Force pilot and was told that women are not accepted. She won a Supreme Court case which allowed her to try out.  She didn’t get accepted, but today there are women fighter pilots and navigators, thanks to Alice Miller. If we have not yet achieved all of our goals, we will succeed in the future. We will continue to pursue justice.

While I long for the day when we’ll all look back and wonder what all the fuss was about, I don’t see that happening for a long time to come. And we have new challenges to face.  Birkat Shalom, my congregation at Kibbutz Gezer, is being allocated a pre-fab building.  Now we will need to raise the funds to finish and install it.  Other congregations are facing similar hurdles. In the meantime, I remind myself that hope is a mitzvah, a commandment, and one which sustains me when times get rough.  In the meantime, let’s say “L’Hayim” and continue to choose life, to reach for the heavens and beyond the seas, day after day.

Rabbi Miri Gold is the rabbi of Kehilat Birkat Shalom on Kibbutz Gezer in the Gezer region of Israel. Rabbi Gold made aliyah in 1977, and in 1999, she was the third woman to be ordained as a rabbi by the Hebrew Union College. In 2005, Rabbi Gold petitioned the Supreme Court of Israel to recognize her as the official rabbi of her community and to receive a salary, as do the Orthodox rabbis serving communities in the Gezer Regional Council. She has been represented by the Israel Religious Action Center (IRAC) in this case.

AMAZING stuff! Yasher koach to the Israel Religious Action Center and Rabbi Miri Gold for your persistence, thoughtful collaboration, and enduring hope that things can be different. You are an inspiration to me.

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What a day!

ImageI do not know what happened but I promise when I took this photo it was rotated 90 degrees to the right so just tilt your head and it will be fine.

This is a picture of me just after I received my Masters of Arts in Jewish Education (MAJE) yesterday! (It is pure coincidence that my glasses, the bow on the diploma and my hood match).

MY DAD, THE DIVA, BIRTHDAY BUDDY and many others were there to celebrate. I’m a lucky woman. This ceremony was different from the other graduations and ordinations because, as my family and beloved friends can attest, at my MAHL commencement and graduation both, I made activity books so that everyone could be entertained during a somewhat lengthy ceremony. This year, because of the popularity of the smart phone and iPad, I did not make such a book. I hear from the family that they were busy playing Scrabble (I’m so proud) and I live tweeted the ceremony. You can see that here.

Many have asked what is next on the horizon and the answer is, “I am pursuing a lot of different opportunities and hope that something will something will come to fruition soon.” In other words, I am on the job hunt. If you know of a position that might be well-suited for me please let me know!

Thanks to MY DAD, THE DIVA, my family of birth and choice for all of their support this past year as I went back to school.

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Where I’ve been

It has been awhile my dear reader! While I acknowledge this, I am not entirely sorry because I have been working my tail off finishing up my degree requirements for my MAJE (Master of Arts in Jewish Education) that I will receive next week! The pictures in this post are of my curriculum guide. Each Rhea Hirsch School of Education graduate is required to submit a curriculum guide that provides the material for a religious school, adult settings, day school or summer camps. I wrote my curriculum guide, “Poetic Justice: Uncovering Modern Hebrew Poetry,” for adults. Needless to say the reason I have not been blogging is because I have been busily writing away. Fortunately, I am done now so I can return to this medium of writing also.

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If you would like to see a copy of this, or would like me to come to your synagogue and teach it (!) it will be available at the Tartak Center at HUC in Los Angeles (or you can message me privately).

In case you were wondering I do not yet know what I will be doing after graduation though I am busily looking for all exciting opportunities on the horizon.

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A seder to savor

If you are going to be in Los Angeles and haven’t yet figured out your second seder, I hope you will consider joining me for A Seder to Savor (you can see the menu at that link). The dinner will include a brief seder and AMAZING food.

If you have questions, you can contact Street at 323.203.0500 or write a comment here and I will do my best to help!

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