Sometimes, the rabbi plays basketball

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One of the many parts of being a rabbi that I love is that no two days are alike. Take yesterday, for example. I knew the elementary school basketball team had a 3:30 game scheduled and thought it would be nice to cheer them on (and stand outside and get out of my office). I made my way over the parking lot where basketball is played as the students were warming up for the game. Fast forward about ten minutes and it turns out the other team was not going to show. A forfeit. Go BHDS Bears!

It was somehow quickly determined that myself, the BHDS principal, a parent and the coach would join in since the referee was there and we would divide the adults and students and have a pickup game. While I was ill prepared, note the footwear in the photo above, it was so much fun. I got to spend time with the BHDS students, see how they used some of the important character traits we emphasize as a school, and I got to play basketball. We played two 20-minute halves and a good time was had by everyone!

(And there are now a pair of socks and sneakers in the trunk of my car for future basketball playing ’emergencies’).

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A silly story on a heavy news day

There are a lot of serious news stories that beg for comment. This blog post will not do that. Instead…

I’m left-handed. While I do many things as a lefty such as write; eat, throw, kick, peel vegetables, use a knife or scissors, there are lots of things I do right-handed (no I don’t know why). For example; swing a baseball bat, swing a golf club, and play the guitar (I’m no Paul McCartney).

For Chanukah I received a Fitbit. So far, I’ve found it a useful tool to increase my own awareness of how I sleep (I can be restless) and how much I move (not enough. I’d love a treadmill desk. Donations gratefully accepted). While some of the exercise I do at the gym (bike and my preferred elliptical) do not get “counted” because my arms don’t swing, I like that I can manually add my workout routine to the Fitbit app.

Yesterday I had a good, though rushed gym workout. I added my minutes into the Fitbit app during breakfast and went about my day. When I got home after Religious School I checked the app. I doubled my activity time after the gym! While I did get to walk around quite a bit yesterday visiting classes I remained perplexed.

“How did this happen,” I thought.

And then I relaxed it. I led T’filah and played the guitar, strumming away on my non-dominant, Fitbit wearing right arm. Activity minutes found!

So if you need more activity minutes in your busy day, my recommendation is to hit the gym OR play the guitar wearing your Fitbit.

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Four years

Dear MOM,

Tonight on the Jewish calendar marks 4 years since you died. It is hard to believe, four years. There are so many things to say and so many things I wish we could talk about, but those remain between you and me and not this blog.

It seems appropriate that the 5th of Kislev (your yartzeit) is also Thanksgiving. You loved this holiday. The huge meal, the lavish entertaining, the family and friends gathered together around the dinner table. Yeah presence is still missed at those gatherings and always will be.

I love you, Mom. I always will. I raised a glass of your favorite to you.

Live from “Aloha Beach Resort” land,
ES

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We are Religious Jews!

This is the sermon I delivered at Temple Beth Hillel on Yom Kippur morning at both services (click on the world ‘this’ and you should be directed to the text).

 

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Count Your Marbles: Honor Jewish Time

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This is the sermon I delivered on Erev Rosh Hashanah 5775 at Temple Beth Hillel.

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Happy birthday, Mom

Today would have been MY MOM’s 70th birthday. I am so grateful that MY SISTER and I had a professional photographer take these photos at her 65th birthday celebration. We knew they woudl be a treasure, we could never have imagined how invaluabe they are today.

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A quick story.

A few weeks ago I attended my first Shabbat service at TBH. It was wonderful meeting people and I was standing with a group of Friday night regulars and they were asking the basic get-to-know you questions. It was a pleasant conversation and then, somehow the subject of where my parents grew up arose.

“My parents went to rival high schools,” I said, “so our family roots are deep in Los Angeles.”

“Oh, which high schools?” asked a congregant.

“MY DAD went to high school #1 and MY MOM went to high school #2,” I answered.

“Oh, how old are your parents?”

“MY MOM passed away a few years ago. She would have been 70 this year,” I said.

“I just turned 70 this year,” said a congregant, “and I also went to high school #2. What was your mother’s maiden name?”

“Her last name was XXXXXX [I’m leaving out some of the detail information for privacy reasons.]”

“You’re kidding! I knew your mom! She was in all of the musicals and had a beautiful voice just like you!”

We both had the chills after this chance encounter.

Fast forward to this past Shabbat…

My new congregant brought her high school yearbook with her and showed me the pictures of my mom, as well as her own senior photo. Thank goodness we live in such a small world.

I love you and miss you every day, Mom.

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Red alert

There is so much to say and so much being said about what is happening in Israel, Gaza and the West Bank. Two days ago I downloaded an app called “Red Alert” that lets you know (you can set the settings) when a missile or rocket is headed and if you are in that area to take cover in Israel. There are, of course, also loud sirens in the streets indicating citizens of Israel should move towards the bomb shelters.

This is a snapshot of my notifications from this morning.

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I must be honest I am feeling a lot of feelings. The situation is completely horrible. My loved ones, my friends, my colleagues, my Israeli and Arab brothers and sisters are under attack by a terrorist regime that is using civilians as human shields to perpetrate fear, violence and destruction.

The first night I downloaded the app as I attempted to sleep about every 45 minutes or so the app would sound that another rocket or missile was headed towards a population center. It was a restless night of sleep, and at one point, somewhere around 3am, my semi-conscious self realized that I could turn off the alerts. I could make it go away in order to sleep. My Israeli brothers and sisters don’t have this luxury of turning off the alarm.

Now know what it is like to be on the other side of the phone call. During my first year of studies at HUC-JIR (2003-2004) there were many times I grabbed my cell phone and made the expensive call to my parents and said, “Hi Mom/Dad. I’m fine. I’m calling to let you know there was a bombing…” Tuesday I received the call. “Hi E. I’m fine. I’m in the bomb shelter at the hotel.” And this morning the message came by text. “I’m ok. 4 rockets in Jlem. Iron dome hooray!” Hooray for Iron Dome, indeed.

Israel might seem so far away but my brothers and sisters are living a very different reality. And because I don’t know what else to do I pray for the peace of Jerusalem [and all of Israel]. I hope you might join me.

And “Red Alert” went off again. This time Be’er Sheva.

May peace come quickly.

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Changes

Today I start a new chapter. I begin a new position at Temple Beth Hillel as Director of Religious Education. My work will primarily be in Temple Beth Hillel’s schools, especially the religious school and I will also have some clergy responsibilities. I am very excited about this new chapter and working with this vibrant community. I hope that I will be back to blogging more regularly as well.

 

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Rememberance

Today marks Yom HaZikaron, the day of remembrance for fallen soldiers and victims of terror.

This tribute seems most appropriate today.

This year we remember:
23,169 fallen soldiers and
2,495 victims of terror.
57 more since last Memorial Day.

“A State is not handed to a people on a silver platter.”
Chaim Weizmann, first president of Israel

The Silver Platter
Nathan Altermam

The Earth grows still.
The lurid sky slowly pales
Over smoking borders.
Heartsick, but still living, a people stand by
To greet the uniqueness
of the miracle.

Readied, they wait beneath the moon,
Wrapped in awesome joy, before the light.
– Then, soon,
A girl and boy step forward,
And slowly walk before the waiting nation;

In work garb and heavy-shod
They climb
In stillness.
Wearing yet the dress of battle, the grime
Of aching day and fire-filled night

Unwashed, weary unto death, not knowing rest,
But wearing youth like dewdrops in their hair.
– Silently the two approach
And stand.
Are they of the quick or of the dead?

Through wondering tears, the people stare.
“Who are you, the silent two?”
And they reply: “We are the silver platter
Upon which the Jewish State was served to you.”

And speaking, fall in shadow at the nation’s feet.
Let the rest in Israel’s chronicles be told.

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The graduate

Today begins an exciting weekend for my family. MY SISTER is graduating! She worked INCREDIBLY hard, going to school, completing clinical hours all while working full time.  MY SISTER will be (after the ceremony tonight I will say is) a marriage and family therapist. Hooray!

MY SISTER's preschool graduation. I'm hoping she wears that hat.

MY SISTER’s preschool graduation. I’m hoping she wears that hat.

I’m charging the camera battery and have a clear memory card so there will definitely be lots of pictures. Mazal tov MY SISTER. I love you and am so proud!

 

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